Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Epiphanie

I was playing on facebook today and came across this:

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Of course I am making sure that I do all I can to win some free stuff. Time will tell if I win or not. It would be super cool to have the camera and a fun bag to put it in :)

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Short Update

So, it has been almost forever since I last posted or even logged onto my blog. I am thinking that I am just too busy to do this right now. I have been working 4 days a week and 12 hour shifts. Now that does not sound like much until you add that I have a 75 minute commute to work and then another 75 minutes to get home. That adds up to a 15 hour day. I know, I am complaining.
Well, Blaine has finally found a job working for a trucking company. He will be driving truck and making deliveries as they need him. I used to complain that he had a loser job when he was a truck driver before, but now that we have gone 5 months with him unemployed (without unemployment benefits), I am just so thankful that he was able to find something.
Kayla and Cayden are going to start at a daycare tomorrow. Kayla has NEVER been to a daycare or babysitter before. We have been so fortunate to have been able to either be with her or have family be with her. After hours of researching and interviewing, we found a daycare that will transport Cayden to school, keep Kayla in the baby room until she is a little bigger and they seem to be the best qualified. I am very nervous about it, but I know that it is the right thing for us right now.
Josh and Jared are still plugging along with school as long as I keep hounding them to get their homework done. They could be doing better, but I am trying to accept the fact that I can not control how they perform at school, I can just execute punishments and rewards when they get home. It is a difficult thing for an overprotective mother to learn, and slowly I am learning.
My family is still struggling and growing and facing huge challenges daily. We are praying for the best and expecting to just resolve the major issue that is going on. Hopefully by the end of April we will have a resolution and be able to deal with the result.
I will have more time in a month and will post all of the fun photos of our happenings. I promise to make this a fun thing to stay up to date with the Murdock clan!

Monday, January 18, 2010

Sad News

So, after Blaine has spent the last 4 months working so hard on getting his business started, he was able to run it for only 30 days before his financial partner pulled out. For some strange reason his partner thought that he would see an income after less then 30 days. I am not sure what reality he is living in that he thought you can see a return after 30 days on a new business, but he pulled out all financial support. Needless to say the business has closed. Blaine is very devastated and we are both hoping that his employment search will be very short and successful. I am so grateful that I am able to support our family with my income alone. I have to work 4- 12 hour shifts to do it but at least we are not struggling as some families are in this day and time. I know that Blaine is very sad, but I think he is grateful that he will not have to be the stay at home dad. It is driving him crazy!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

The Best of 2009

As this year is quickly approaching an end, I am reflecting back on the bests of this year.

1. We moved away from the snow and cold to warm and sunny Queen Creek, AZ. For those who are not sure of where this is, it is in the greater Phoenix area in southern Arizona. I am so excited to not be shoveling snow off my driveway anymore. I love that I was able to wear short sleeves for Thanksgiving. Most of all I love that I am close to most of my family here.

2. Blaine made his dream of being a business owner, come true. December 1, 2009 was the first day of business for Murdock Logistics. he started with 2 semi trucks with 53 foot trailers and 2 truck drivers and has them running freight all over the country. He was able to do this with an investor to fund the operation and because he was laid off. I am sure the Lord was watching out for us when this happened. If he was working, he would have never done this venture.

3. Joshua started high school. Although not on my top ten list (I really am starting to feel old now), it is on Josh's. He was so excited to start high school and meet new friends. Mainly he wanted to play high school football. His dream came true when he made the JV team at his high school. This is only the second year his school has been open and they did not have sports last year due to the lack of students. Josh was playing the starting defensive line and helped his team achieve the first victory for the school's football team. His father also made a trip out to watch him play this year which was one of Josh's highlights.

4. Jared started junior high. Again this thing where my kids are growing up is making me feel really old. Jared was so excited to be in junior high. He was on the football team also. His school did a flag football team and they played all over the valley. Jared loved being part of the team even though he did not play that much. He tried hard and his father was able to make it to his last game of the season. This was a huge deal for Jared, and the coach even let him play a bit more during that game.

5. Cayden started full day kindergarten. He did not get to finish preschool because we moved in March, so I was concerned that he was not up to the level he needed to be for kindergarten, but he surprised us and has done so well. He was one of the first 5 people in his class to get into the 100 club. That is where you can count to and write to 100. They had a small ceremony at the end of the semester for all of the kids that were in the 100 club. Blaine was able to go and see Cayden get his award. Cayden has made so many friends and loves his teacher. I am so thankful that he was able to attend this school!

6. Kayla turned 1. Our little princess has gotten so big! She is finally in the 5th percentile for weight (up from the 1st percentile at 9 months)! She is finally wearing 18 month clothes at 19 months. She finally has hair that can be put into 2 ponytails and stay for more then a few minutes without tons of mouse and hairspray! My baby girl is growing up. We thought she had outgrown her milk allergy, but she started having symptoms again so she is now on soy. she seems to be doing well with that and I am so thankful she does not have to be on something hypoallergenic!

7. My mom and I are finally building a relationship. After my whole life of being envious of others who could tell their moms everything and wanted their moms to be the first to know special secrets, I am starting to have that same relationship with my mom. I took an awful situation to make it happen, but we are making lemonade out of lemons and building our relationship.

8. We the first Whittle Thanksgiving get together. This included my uncle Mike and his whole family and all but one of my brothers and all of our families. There were 31 people there. WOW!!! It is the first time that we have ever gotten together since the kids left home. There were 3 grand kids that had to go to another parents house for that holiday and my dad who was not able to attend, were there in spirit. Since I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters and my uncle has 2 children and all but one sister has children of their own, that was lot of Whittle family members in one place.

9. I have been able to reconnect with many lost friends through facebook. I was so excited when I was able to find people that I had lost touch with on facebook and write short notes to catch up or just view photos of their families. What an amazing thing the Internet is. I also have been able to reconnect with my grandmary via email!

10. My husband and I celebrated our 8th anniversary this year. I am married to such an amazing man. He is so wonderful to me and puts up with all of my grouchiness and orneriness. He has been such a rock during our struggles this past year and I never could thank him enough for all that he does! He has become Mr. MOM while he has been building his business, and even though I give him a hard time, he has done a wonderful job of coordinating the kids' schedules and making sure things get done at home. He has even become quite the cook!

There are many things that did not make the top ten list but these were the highlights. There were also many sad and trying times that we have struggled through, but overall we have had a wonderful year and have grown so close. Trials bring us strength! Thank you to all who have kept us in your thoughts and prayers.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Promised Photos!

Jared picked the biggest pumpkin he could find.Cayden picked one he could carry!
Cayden aka GI Joe and Kayla aka the princess

Kayla, Cassia, Cayden, and Jared





Friday, November 6, 2009

October over....ALREADY???

Well there I am happy to say that we are still alive and mostly well. Josh and Jared have a case of the stomach flu. Jared, of course, is not as quick to recover because of the asthma. He goes in next week for shots. I can not wait for him to have the H1N1 shot and not have to worry about him so much. Cayden and Kayla have escaped the illnesses so far and the hand washing and hand sanitizing have skyrocketed at the Murdock home.
As for the crisis es in our lives, they are still there. Last month Blaine was laid off from his job. We are so fortunate that the nursing industry picks up in the winter and I have been able to pick up tons of overtime. We have not had to struggle with the bills much and that is such a relief. Blaine is starting his own trucking business and has almost everything ready for trucks to start rolling the end of next week. HOORAY! I am thankful that the overtime is here when I need it, but I really miss being at home with the kids. they really are the joy of my life. I am feeling very disconnected from my family now that I work 4-5 12 hour shifts every week. I am also very fortunate that I have not gotten sick! We are saying our prayers that we can continue this path as long as the Lord wants us to, but will be just as thankful when our time is up!
Our family is becoming very close because of the other major crisis in our lives and that is the only thing the is good about it. I can not wait until this one is over!
Halloween was wonderful and the kids had a blast. I did take pictures, but am typing this blog update at work do they are not posted. Sorry! I will get them up this weekend cuz I am off for 2 days in a row! We did get our family pictures done and our amazing photographer aka Andrea Whittle, posted them on her facebook. She is not private, so I am including the link to see our cute and adorable children as of last week.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/album.php?aid=2039061&id=1111500298&ref=mf

I wish everyone a wonderful foist week of November and I will get pictures posted very soon!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Not OK

I have been getting quite a few phone calls and messages on facebook and by email from my wonderful acquaintances asking if I am OK. Well, I am not ok. I keep trying to put a good show on, but I am really not ok. I keep getting more and more bad news and just when I think it is done coming, there is more just waiting to come out. I really am so grateful for everyone that has been giving me encouragement and for all the prayers that have been said on my behalf. Thank you to each and every one of you that are thinking of me and my family and praying for us. It helps knowing that I do have those around that truly care.